It is actually very hard for me to move. My current employer has been awesome to me. He still hasn't quite accepted the fact that I want to move to be closer to my family. He has pretty much offered me anything and everything he can reasonably think of to get me to stay. I tried to explain to him that if I was leaving for any of those reasons, i wouldn't be searching 200 miles away for employment that will probably get me less money, worse benefits, and a worse schedule. The whole point is my daughter could use our help and I would like to participate in my granddaughter's life a bit more as she grows up. I don't get to see her as much as I used to since she started school last year.