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Originally Posted by donquixote99
Sure.
The underdog who got to be president-elect through racist demagogery, but not the underdogs getting shit at school....
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I was bullied in school from the third to the sixth grade because I was the "Fat kid". By the end of the sixth grade I weighed 160 lbs at 5 feet 5 inches. By today's standards that's not all that fat but in 1959 I stood out. And there isn't a Helluva lot that the adults, parents and teachers, can do. Kids that age live in an entirely different world than the adults. In the end, the only person that can help you is yourself.
So when the summer after 6th grade came around I decided "Fuck this shit".
In the fall I would be starting a new school (Junior High) and I decided to reinvent myself. I found this home made boat anchor near my house. It looked like someone had filled a bucket with concrete and then bent a piece of rebar into a U shape and stuck in in there for a handle. It weighed about 15 lbs. I started working out with that, just doing exercises I made up. Looking back on it, what I had was a home made kettlebell. I also did calisthenics and had my mother drive down the road until the odometer read a half mile and I made a note of a telephone pole at that point. I started running down and back to make it a mile. Did that 3-4 times a week. And I went on a crash diet.
By the time 7th grade started I had grown an inch to five foot six and dropped my weight down to a mean and lean 130 lbs.
I still got some shit occasional because our Junior High School had a lot of those Fonzi who, unlike they were portrayed on "Happy Days" were, for the most part dirtbags that would start a fight at the drop of a hat and drop the hat themselves, but overall I didn't get any more shit than anyone else.
The moral of the story: Bullies are always looking for a soft target. So if if you don't want to be bullied, make yourself into a hard target.