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Originally Posted by Ike Bana
OK then...lets get this done...
... you couldn't force them into intellectual compliance through scolding and shaming.
And if you realized that...why TF would you think that it would work with me? You're not my goddamn mother, don.
No don...you're not insane, but at some point if you don't knock this shit off with me, you're gonna have a difficult time ever convincing me that you're not a lousy parent.
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Nope, know well I can't force you to do anything--except, just maybe, moderate the hate speech a little. Even that is worth doing. I can endure your bad opinion of me.
Otherwise, convinced as I am that hate has very bad effects, I criticize you as a way to make the case. What bad effects? Two main ones. First, it tempts people by making evil acts seem good and right. Then the enemy seeks revenge and the shit goes on and on and on. Second, it makes one not want peace, reject policies that could contribute to it, and even favor policies that block it. All justified by bigoted claims like "there's no reasoning with
these people." [quoting you, emphasis added]
Being against hate does not mean i don't have normal human outrage against outrageous acts. As we can act against the actual perpetrators, I'm all for it. But spare me the rationalizations for declaring whole ethnic/religious groups enemies, the 'passive supporters BS' and so on. Just as I can't force you to get your mind right, you can't force them. Let them be wrong, fight who we can and when we must, but avoid poisoning ourselves and the world with yet more hate. That will just make us do more evil, and get more evil done to us.
How might things have gone with you wife in the MLK riot time, if the guys who helped her had instead been all pissed over 'passive' support of racism by the mass of white people? That's an example of how attitudes like yours can mess things up in the real world.