Step one: as a Democrat, and as President, announce your support for homosexual marriage
Step two: let the chips fall where they may.
Case in point:
http://qctimes.com/news/local/iowa-n...9bb2963f4.html
A few days ago I posted an article about a Dem party leader in PA defecting over the issue. Folks here in this forum derided her as a DINO, and characterized her with other less flattering terms.
I suspect it would be tough to characterize this guy as a DINO, however.