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Originally Posted by OvenMaster

My aunt died a few years ago. Everyone expected the typical packed-to-the-rafters-with-friends-and-relatives Polish wake, funeral, funeral Mass, burial, and a gathering afterwards, complete with food.

What she got instead, courtesy of her oldest son, was a thirty minute wake/viewing, a ten-minute service, a private cremation, and then her remains got poured into the local river. She didn't even get buried next to her husband (who died over 20 years ago and still has no grave marker). Made an awful lot of relatives VERY angry and upset, especially my Dad.

I could go on, but I won't bother. All I'll say is that there's nowhere near enough respect for the dead, never mind the living.

even though im an atheist i do belive in prayer and i would like to say that i offer my prayers for your dad what the son did was a crime.