It's just a mask

[watsup1000]

B"ut I'm not so narcissistic to think that the world needs to change because of my loss."

But you are so narcissistic as to imply that you seem to know how others would react to a loss of a loved one. No one has stated that "the world needs to change because of my loss". You really need to quit making accusations towards others without the slightest bit of evidence that is what they think or feel.
"That's not what I did".
Of course it is. You are replying directly to Don and you are implying that is his thoughts or feelings, along with the "living in fear" strawman further above.