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Originally Posted by noonereal
Well, you did not ask me but I do know the answer and beating the crap out of a kid is not the most successful path and certainly deserves no praise in deed.
I know many who lived in the worst of the worst.
BTW beating a kid like this does not necessarily negate they turn out "bad" it simply does not improve the odds.
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And I toiled in a HUD sponsored welfare to work program back in the Clinton welfare reform days. I had over a hundred single black mom clients who spilled their guts out to me for over 15 years about what they dealt with trying to keep their 14 year old boys out of the "thug" life.
What typically worked is when the boys were more afraid of their mom, or all too often their grandmother, than they were of the gangbangers. It's not the plan of choice for any child's development. But when the alternatives are what they are...what works is what needs to be done.
So barbara can blow it out her ass.