Warm greetings from someone who grew up in Oklahoma and once -- many years ago -- had the deepest crush upon a girl who went to HS at Tulsa Washington and, later, went to Rogers State in your city.
I have felt some of your loss and do not frequent AK much these days as, while I maintain ownership of my classic sound system, it hasn't been plugged in for over a year and that site is difficult mentally for me, right now.
That said, I adore people here and very much wish that I could locate an opportunity to meet any of them, anywhere.
I cannot stress to you the joy I have found here, when I could locate none anywhere else, and hope you get same.