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Old 05-08-2017, 12:34 PM
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Stereotype? Yeah, plenty of that going around, including in the gay community. For Todd and I, our relationship was more romantic than anything else. When we were considering going to Massachusetts, we were seeing a counselor on a pre-marriage basis. She was like, "Your relationship started with a wedding? A full-blown wedding?" She said that was likely to be credited for our relationship being so romantic and affectionate and not so "lustful." I was totally ready to go to Massachusetts and have a real wedding. Here I was the "straight" guy, and Todd broke it off! And Gay Wedding Day had been almost an impromptu "coming out," with my mother and sister and several aunts, cousins, and friends there. Kind of hard to undo that!
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